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From the Poet's Notebook

New poems by Howard Nelson

Poems from the Nursing Home

Wedding Photo

"That's a nice picture

of us there on the shelf."

"That's not me. That's Dad."

I take it down and show it to her.

"Good looking couple," I say.

"Yes, I was a pretty bride,

and you were a good-looking guy.

There we are, looking forward

to a happy marriage,"

She catches herself.

"That's not you, is it?

That's your father.

You weren't

in the picture yet."



A Decision in the Nursing Home

"I guess I should make a decision soon.

I need to decide where to go.

Will they let me stay the night here?"

"Sure, you have a room here,

right down the hall." "Really?"

"Yes, this is your home now.

You've lived here almost a year.

Everything's taken care of.

You can stay as long as you want."

"OK. That's good to know.

I guess I'll stay," and

she gives a little shrug,

a gesture she makes

quite frequently now.

"I'm glad you're on my team."

"OK--you just go with the flow."

"OK--that's what I'll do."



Circular

"I have to wait here

for Howie to come."

"That's me--I'm here

already! Who

did you think I was?"

She pauses. "You."

"Who's you?" "Well,

I don't know.

Howie, I guess."

But clearly she was

thinking of someone else.

I wonder who.



Dementia

We go for a ride.

"I was just thinking,

I'm perfectly content.

There's no place

I would rather be

than taking a ride

with my son

on such a beautiful day,

looking at the houses

in this little town,

and driving out in the country

with the trees and the farms.

It's a beautiful world,

and we're lucky

to be living in it."